You know the thing about theories? They are mostly problematic in practice. Most of them do not work, you have to be able to try again and again to get them right in real life. To have any grand theories about men, love, you have to have dated atleast 2 of them. Your heart must be broken a couple of times. you must have felt the highs and the lows of love to qualify. As a woman, to test run a theory on social death and or apathy, try having a child out of wedlock and by yourself (in Nigeria). If you make it out alive, the lessons will permanently be learnt. You will loose friends, your lover, you will lose the confidence that people you loved had for you. you will be judged by people with the least moral standing, But you will have a different kind of insight into who you think you are as well.
The thing with theories is almost like the problem with Nigerian ideals. They only work on paper.
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