You read 'student commits suicide over results' and you go 'oh? how stupid? Examination results don't mean anything, don't give jobs' bla bla. To you, the thought in itself is irrational, stupid, inconsiderate, unholy...
Same goes when the man killed himself because he is too poor to feed his family, or when the boy killed himself because the girl didn't love him back or marry him, or when the Billionaire got sad because he didn't have what to do with his money anymore, or the other that girl cut her wrists because her nose and boobs where not as pointy as the other girls in her class...
It is easy to judge another person's irrational acts when you are not the one with the emotions.
This here is the point; All pain is pain and hurts just as much.
And no, do not tell her she is being stupid because she feels that way too. You would be insensitively stupid to feel that way too.
Same goes when the man killed himself because he is too poor to feed his family, or when the boy killed himself because the girl didn't love him back or marry him, or when the Billionaire got sad because he didn't have what to do with his money anymore, or the other that girl cut her wrists because her nose and boobs where not as pointy as the other girls in her class...
It is easy to judge another person's irrational acts when you are not the one with the emotions.
This here is the point; All pain is pain and hurts just as much.
And no, do not tell her she is being stupid because she feels that way too. You would be insensitively stupid to feel that way too.
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